Workshops

Elfi Dillon-Shaw and Gary Dillon offer erotic education workshops to teach people to appreciate the wide spectrum of human sexuality, expand beyond old habits of body and mind, and open to new states of arousal, pleasure, and connection.

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All genders and sexual orientations, singles and couples are welcome and honoured. Be assured that all activity takes place in a community of adults with a deep desire for responsible and respectful erotic expression. Confidentiality, comfort, boundaries, ground-rules and agreements are discussed at the beginning of each workshop. All activities are explained beforehand and all personal decisions are honoured.

The following is a list of the workshops offered:

The Sexual Attitude Restructuring/Reassessment program (SAR)

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The Sexual Attitude Restructuring/Reassessment program (SAR) is a cutting edge intense learning event designed for people who wish to better understand their own sexuality and that of others. It is a program dedicated to fulfilling the need for advanced training in human sexuality. Didactic and experiential, SAR offers each person the information and experience necessary […]

Sexual Intelligence for Body, Mind and Heart

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Do you experience anxiety, heartache, confusion or apathy connected with sexuality and relationships? Do you want to learn erotic skills for enhanced arousal and orgasmic states as well as clarity, communication and connection? This new program in The Haven’s core curriculum teaches erotic literacy for body, mind and heart through surrendering to the ocean of […]

Eros and the Bowl of Light – opening to erotic life for couples – Introductory Workshop

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With great respect and honor we present the gifts of erotic teachings from ancestral wisdom schools and the Big Stories– like that of Eros and Psyche– to those couples who would like to find fresh ways of being with each other. Many couples grieve the loss of physical closeness in the form of erotic play or sex even […]

Journey to the holy well: honouring your erotic body – for women

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Stirring your Cauldron continued: A circle of women is a powerful cauldron for learning about the healing potential of sexual energy. By creating a consensual and relaxed container in time and space we can learn to let go into the pleasure of our body. We discover our deep innate wisdom when we commit to undergo […]

The Askable Parent/Adult

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Taking the Stress Out of “The Talk”- the Askable Parent/Adult It’s a talk that parents and caregivers often might dread.  “Where do babies come from?”  Many used to rely entirely on “The Talk” at school to provide sexuality information to their children, but it’s becoming increasingly clear that more information is needed. Parents and Caregivers […]

Celebrating the Body Erotic for all Genders

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A Bodyelectricschool Workshop with Emaya (Elfi) Dillon Shaw & William McMeniman Persons of all genders have so much to learn from and teach to each other. This retreat creates a temporary community that explores and celebrates the potential healing power of all human beings. We use conscious breath, nurturing and taoist erotic massage to help […]

Body, Breath, Sex and Energy for Women – remembering your erotic self!

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In the bustle of our stressful lives we so often forget the deepest source of energy – our erotic and sensual body!  Sometimes we only become awake when we hurt or feel numb and then look outward to find healing, yet there is a way into your own innate body wisdom that is simple and […]

Stirring the Cauldron: Women and Sexuality

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A sexuality workshop for the whole woman This retreat is for women of every age, orientation, gender and lifestyle who want to taste the full energetic potential of their earthly erotic body. Sexual energy, when allowed to flow freely through the body, offers a more fulfilling, connected and sensuous life, whether we are in partnership or not. The purpose of nurturing […]

Eros and Intimacy, Sex and Spirit for Couples

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Daily life as “For Play” Many couples grieve the loss of physical closeness in the form of erotic play or sex even though they clearly love one another and are skilled in verbal communication. This workshop introduces partners to new ways of igniting their erotic flame and to remember each other in their physical wants […]

Celebrating the Body Erotic for Women

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In a safe, serious and playful space that respects boundaries, embrace pleasure and experience your body as powerful, expressive and sacred. The class expands awareness and sensation through a process of breath, movement and touch. Each woman’s choices and rhythms are honored and celebrated. This workshop is for women of all sexual orientations and ages […]